In "Have you renewed
your wedding vows?", ViSexual wonders how
many have renewed
their wedding vows
to accommodate their
new lifestyle. He
suspects that
swinging, open
marriages and
polyamory
relationships might
conflict with the
old traditional
vows.   In
"Fantasy reluctant",
Fantasy01 posted
that his wife is
reluctant to discuss
her sexual fantasies
even after having
played with another
couple and this
confuses him. In
"Friend's Wife", ecoupleca posted
that they are
friends with another
couple who also
swing but they have
never played with
each other.  After a
night of being at a
club and meeting two
other couples and
getting hotel rooms
and watching the
other's wife play,
the husbands are now
interested in taking
things further but
have decided due to
the friendship to
leave things like
they are. They
wonder if anyone
else has had a
similar experience
and took it to the
next level and if
so, how did it go.
In "NYE plans
everyone?", dnmnms
posted that after
taking a break she
is excited about
heading out to a
club for NYE and did
some shopping for
the perfect dress
and shoes. She asked
is everyone getting
all pretty to ring
in the New Year. In
"2nd chances after
the other male can't
perform?", iapr
has a different spin
on the question of
giving a male a
second chance to
perform after
failing the first
time. He asked have
you been open to the
idea of giving
another chance and
it's been the other
party who has opted
out of making
another attempt.  In "A swinger
anthem?", Edison
Carter posted about
a song he feels
would make a swinger
anthem as the
refrain says,'let my
yes mean yes and my
no mean no'. Tracey2
is "A little
confused/discouraged
about something",
they have been
involved with
swinging for a few
months but are
having a hard time
with the dating part
of swinging. They
met a couple of
couples where things
seemed to go really
well and want to see
again however even
though the other
couples said they
had a good time when
they mail the
couples they don't
write back. They
aren't sure if they
said something wrong
or if they made a
mistake in e-mail
etiquette. They
wonder if this is a
normal occurence. 
In "Dr. Dumb or How
I learned to open
mouth and insert
foot to the knee", warrencouple posted
that during talking
with his wife about
attending a club he
made the mistake of
saying, he was going
to put his foot down
and they were going.
This hurt his wife,
especially after he
has been telling her
they would got at
her pace and comfort
level. In "Vanilla
friends, potential
swingers???", bunnyluvn posted
that they have a
vanilla couple they
are friends with
that they wonder if
they might be
interested in
swinging but are
unsure how to
approach the topic
with them and if
they even should.
IvoryTowers asked,
"What's the thrill
of watching?", she
has noticed a lot of
men and some women
talk about how much
their swinging and
fantasy lives are
driven by watching
their partner with
someone else. She
asked if those who
get most or much of
their enjoyment out
of watching could
explain why as she
would like to
understand this.